There is no specific saying that I can recite. There is no specific moment of admonition. Yet it is the culmination of years spent under the love, wisdom and knowledge of my Father, imparted to me that has helped mold and shape the man I am today. It is too lofty a goal for me to reach to that pinnacle of closeness that my father shares with our God. I would be blessed to amount to half of what my father is. It is too arduous to grasp the wisdom that has been gifted to him by God, and to be as steady as the North Star guiding his family towards Christ...Yet I still strive, for the sake of my precious daughter. I must endeavor to amend myself as a man, as a husband, as a father. The strengths I offer, often pail in comparison to those I have enjoyed as a son to my father during the past 33 years. His finest qualities I endure to represent, and the humbleness in his weaknesses encourages me to rise again when I have fallen.
When my Father in Heaven corrects me when I falter, the rebuke I receive is tempered with His love and grace. It is not unfamiliar, as it is mirrored in the correction I received from my father. Seeking wisdom from my Father in Heaven I often hear God's words of wisdom come from my father's mouth and I find it awesome and inspiring.
Though how much more difficult for those raised without a father, or those whose father did not live up to the expectations of fatherhood? Yet, our Heavenly Father reaches his hands to those, desperate for the love, guidance, wisdom, encouragement and grace and freely gives it. God declares himself as “Father to the fatherless," His word declares that we may find refuge in his arms, his compassion will not fail, and his love endures forever. God the Father's desire for us to come to him and have a relationship with Him is so strong that He gave his only Son to die in our stead, in order to allow us that very possibility. There is no greater love. There is no greater relationship. There is no greater God.
This Father's Day I encourage you to think of the relationship you have not only with your father but more importantly with God the Father. Are you in a close relationship with Him that you can come to him for wisdom, guidance, inspiration and grace? Don't turn your heart away from the Father, but embrace the status of son or daughter of the living God and bury yourself in the tender arms of Abba Father, also warmly understood as “Dear Father”.



